If you think so little of men or even yourself perhaps you need to psychological help.

Finally, people need to stop thinking being a Black woman makes Black women community property to be harassed and stalked. Humans, including Black women have boundaries, and we are entitled to enforce them. If still this behavior is OK to you, imagine if a strange man was following your mother, sister, cousin or daughter. I have another question for those who believe that they stalk and harass Black women because they admire or love us.

If you love Black women wouldn’t you want to protect Black women instead of hurting Black women?

Wouldn’t you want to protect our space and bodies instead of violating them?

You would think that people would agree with how she handled it. So people have different opinions and may disagree with me. He obviously isn’t versed in social cues, and he followed her from outside inside the store.

That is fine, but what shocked me was the violence within the comments. You would have thought she cursed the man out, but she didn’t. If someone you didn’t know followed you from outside inside a building and couldn’t take a hint that you’re not interested, you’d be creeped out too!

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The harassment, stalking and violence directed towards Black women for simply saying no is proof of it.You can end it by treating all women with respect and valuing our spaces and boundaries.In memory of Mary Spears and women who were harmed or killed because of street harassment.Don’t be a thief—save your grade, use Bib Me™ and give credit to those who deserve it! Like I said before, it is obvious she is being followed and being followed by a stranger is scary. The video was short, without context, and everyone sees things through the lens of their perspective.