If you’re stuck in a lecture and thinking “oh god I have to talk to him” you’ll feel trapped and resentful and more likely to end a relationship.But remember people impose or superimpose fears by listening to friends who can have a negative influence and make you overthink things.Don’t forget there are people who do that because they are jealous of your relationship.But it’s hard to differentiate between someone being bitchy or someone genuinely concerned for your wellbeing. How should you treat the limited, precious time you have together when you meet again? I would think that if you have that limited time together all you probably want to do is be together alone and be in bed together.That’s why the most important thing is knowing when you are both seeing each other again.But it’s a problem when one of the partners is controlling that rather than both.

Not knowing when you are properly going to be reunited with your partner makes you feel uncertain, anxious, and worried about whether he or she is seeing somebody else.It depends on the distance but once a month is reasonable. It depends on how much money people have got and not letting your love life get in the way of your studies.Some couples can last up to a year being apart, if they are really strong and determined, but that’s rare.Many people do the whole “you make me feel” blaming thing, and shaming, rather than having a proper conversation.What are the benefits from shaming someone and making them feel bad?